Every party should have a mistletoe. Every party should have a cutie or two. So what I want you to do, is as you walk into a party, take a look around to see where the mistletoe is. Also make a mental note of the cuties in the room. Give yourself permission to start feeling fabulous again. Enjoy the mysteries of mistletoe and enjoy flirting with a cutie or two.
This is the time of year, the holidays to rejoice, renew, and reflect. I want you to spend some time this holiday season really getting inside and asking yourself, How did this year go? Where do I want to go next year? What do I want to celebrate that I learned this year? What do I want to let go of that no longer serves me?
I want you to become a flirting master this holiday season. You don't have to lose 20 lbs, get plastic surgery, or get a new wardrobe. Flirting is anytime, anywhere, with anyone. At the grocery store while you are looking for produce, keep a look at for the cuties in your vicinity. Give yourself permission to be open to see who is in your environment. This is your chance to reclaim your FABULOUSNESS!
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Are you looking at the calendar and dreading the holiday social scene because you hate being minus a plus one? I get it. Celebrate yourself. Become your own arm candy. Strut your stuff into that party.
In the past you have put a lot of time, energy, emotion, and money into your ex. To making him feel loved, special, and nurtured and taken care of. Now is the time to pour that great energy into yourself. Tell yourself, I'm going to treat myself with excellent self love and self care throughout the holiday season.
I want to share some joys, some celebrations of why it's good to be single this holiday season. I think this is a really great celebration. NO IN-LAWS! Woohoo! If you had difficult in-laws, relatives of your ex that you did not enjoy or even friends. Thank God they are gone. Celebrate it and find the family that works for you.
Are you thinking about going back to your ex? Are thinking about forgiving past betrayals, past lies, past deceit, past disappointments, past cheating because you are afraid of being single and alone? Don't do it! Just because you are alone doesn't mean you will be alone forever. Give yourself permission to walk away and move on.
Do you have healthy dating skills? Would you know a good guy if you saw one? Are you still single because you don't know how to be a healthy and happy single? Go to ifhesnottheonewhois.com and change the course of your dating future.
Do you feel entitled to have the love of your life TODAY, on your terms? If you're DEMANDING love into your life and it's not working, stop. Turn down the volume on your entitlement issues, and practice patience.