Two of my friend's, one from Vancouver and one Victoria came to visit me in Surrey, and we all went for coffee and sitting round the table I realised that I had nothing to really contribute to the conversation. The reason for this is that my life centres around two main things well three actually is, my dog, my therapy, and playing billiards which is also part of my therapy.my two friends had jobs and stories to go with the jobs, as well they have a group of friends and go with I had neither. It's not to say that I don't have any friends, but I don't see the much, because their lives are involved with their families, and their jobs. Even a billiards, after two games am very tired, if I play a third game I'm so tired that I usually lose very badly. It's not much of a story to share with your friends. Again I feel good just listening but it would be great to have stories to add to the conversation. you live by the deck of cards you are given.