Love & Sex Answers: http://bit.ly/DanAndJenn -- Anal Play for Beginners (Tips & Techniques) -- Anal sex is very erotic for some people. There are many nerve endings, particularly around the opening, that some people find pleasurable when stimulated. Intensely intimate. The taboo of enjoying a so-called 'prohibited' activity can be exciting to both of you as well. And of course the extra tightness men experience when penetrating anally can be exciting.